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About My Clients
My clients are people searching for deeper, more meaningful connections in their lives and better communication skills to share their deepest desires with their partners. They're monogamous and non-monogamous, heartbroken, sex-starved, or overwhelmed. They're sometimes sex workers or patrons, kinky or vanilla, liberal or conservative. Sometimes they wrestle with society's expectations of them. They are all curious and brave and willing to learn and they're my inspiration every day.
My Background and Approach
I decided to pour my efforts into the kink, sex-positive, and creative-relationship communities in particular after I realized there was a big, gaping hole for clients in need of a safe space to be themselves and work through core issues (attachment, trauma, relationships, self-esteem, etc). I also personally lead my life in a sex-positive way and know first hand the incredible impact it can have. I approach each client with a bespoke style best suited to them. Sometimes there's homework, sometimes there's never homework; it depends on what's happening and who it's happening with. I'm honest, straight-forward and believe the client is the ultimate expert on their lives and I model absolute trust in them by committing to be along for the ride every step of the way. You wanna paddle over the waterfall? I'll be sure to let you know I see it and do my best to help you navigate the waters along the way, but will be with you at the bottom if that's how it goes.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I am passionate about providing a positive environment in which my clients may explore their sexuality, themselves, and everything in between. I am judgment-free, and put a premium on being curious about the world and what my clients share with me. I absolutely love what I do. This is a sex-positive therapy practice, which means I approach sex and sexuality through the lens of consent and agency. There is no right or wrong way to be sexual or have sex so long as it occurs between consenting, informed adults. I trust you know what you like, need, and want. I have experience working with a variety of sexual and relational issues and have worked with people from varying backgrounds from BDSM to open marriage and struggling sexuality to sex work. I also work with people facing things such as grief, addiction, peri- and menopause effects, self-esteem struggles, career decisions, and body image. I treat the whole person, not just issues related to sex.